This is a good checklist for self-evaluation.
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Video on 5 Psychological Tricks To Win Any Argument
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fS5nmy1v34c
Timestamps
01:01 – Tip #1: Lay Out The Points of Agreement 02:58 – Tip #2: Clarify The Other Person’s Perspective 04:02 – Tip #3: Establish Your Good Intentions 05:01 – Tip #4: Separate Your Views From Your Ego 07:26 – Tip #5: Not Identifying With Your Perspective & Winning Mindset
Source: Book of Mormon Concensus